Showing posts with label better lifestyle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label better lifestyle. Show all posts

Thursday, November 7, 2019

Your Natural Abilities


I was asked one day if I thought I was qualified to take the test to become a Psychologist. The answer is yes. We each possess an inherent ability. In cultivating your natural born talents, you must also possess confidence. It would be impossible to help anyone if you do not have confidence in yourself.

In taking over 250 courses in psychology, I discovered by using Freud’s theory of the psychological phenomena, that an awakening can manifest your inherent ability. I discovered the Spiritual Awakening. A spiritual awakening, is the increasing of awareness and awakening of the mind by being aware of the world around you. One must also take this very seriously and have good intentions with others.

In addition to taking courses in Psychology, I also studied the bible. It helped me become clandestinely or consciously aware of myself and all others in the world. I began to understand the power of the mind in relation to thought and the world around me. I started to be in tune with the sound of my own voice, so I knew my own thoughts. This is how I can share and teach, by way of a multitude of experiences.
God creates us in his likeness and image. He hears all, sees all and knows all. Don't you think if you believe in God and are his child he would give you the ability to be as he is? Don't say you believe in him and think you are crazy. You lie if you say you believe the bible. God makes no mistakes. HIS LIKENESS! Senses are the Mind.

The mind causes many things in life to be so. It causes us to do excel, advance, and gives increase and magnifies us. The mind allows us to make proper judgments and perceive things with our senses. Discernment, intuition and the ability to perceive all things the mind can do.
The ability to observe or exercise the mind gives you a comprehension or ability to heed or understand things in life. It is the purpose for you to use your perception for intellectual activities which is a device of mind to use for thought.

You become clandestinely or consciously aware of yourself and all others in the world. You begin to understand the power of the mind in relation to thought and the world around you. You start to be in tune with the sound of your own voice, so you know your own thoughts.

The mind and conscience are interchangeable. The conscience gives you the ability to make correct moral computations or use your reasoning. You also can use your imagination as a form of thought. It is with the consciousness we can create a better world. You should always have positive thoughts and expect positive in your life. ALWAYS!

In using the mind, you must learn to be wise in word and act. You are to use the mind to teach wisdom and to make or show yourself to be wise. You are also to deal wisely with others; also, learning in from your mistakes. In life, there are a series of lessons we learn. We use those things to make more correct calculations in other circumstances. We are to exceed our own expectations in life and not someone else's. To thy own self be true. One must learn to rise above their past self to achieve remarkable things.

One must become delighted in things that bring pleasure. However, there is a fine line where pleasure is concerned. Your pleasure could be someone else's pain. Be sure to ask someone what this means to them to avoid any confusion. You should become more willing to seek pleasurable things as you learn and grow in life.




Tuesday, August 29, 2017

Choosing What's Right

I find many days we are each faced with hard decisions. I was recently faced with something, where I had to choose what was right over what was convenient. It would have accommodated my needs to be devious and deceitful. I chose to be better than that. It is in having an enormous amount of knowledge that I chose to be responsible and honest.

They say honest people finish last, but to who much is given much is required. When you are in possession of something special, it is for you to use those things in a responsible manner. I could just as easily play games and play with someone's emotions, but what will that accomplish? Karma is real. I better understand why there are so many women that face domestic violence.

I am a woman and I do not believe in hitting a woman. I also think it is for us as women to grow up and act responsibly. Some men have probably had domestic violence issues, but we also must accept responsibility for our part in this as well. You do not play with a person's emotions, just because you can. I am probably one of the most fair people I know.

I will not say that life is easy or that doing whats right is easy, but it is in acting honestly that you grow. Many of us go through things that make life uncomfortable. I can recall many days I would sit and ponder ways to make life easier, by doing wrong to others. This is how I can rightly judge situations, because I have been that person too.

Something within us must change, for us to strive to be, do and have better in life. Always weigh your options. Taking to higher road might not be easier, but I guarantee karma will not bite you on the ass as hard.

In the meantime, get your mind right!



Monday, August 7, 2017

The eyes are the window to the soul

HiI look into the eyes of others and see the condition of their soul or the spirit that has overtaken them. Many times it's not the human being or their soul that does wrong, it is an unclean spirit that has overtaken them. Their are many spirits, but the holy Spirit is the best one to be filled with.

It is written we wrestle not with flesh and blood but principalities, powers and spiritual wickedness. It is for us to be aware and mindful at all times. If you know you are starting to think out of your normal patterns, be attentive to your environment. Often, it is someone in your close proximity that is directing negative thought towards you or possibly their thoughts of themselves.

One does need to get up daily and put on their armor. It protects the mind and makes you aware of your surroundings. It is kind of like the armor the knights once wore, except it's armor for mind and soul. It also protects the body from sickness.  When you walk in a newness of mind, your Spiritual life and gifts are increased. You then at this time take the opportunity to learn something from all Experiences.

Seek good over evil. It's not necessary to neglect yourself, because you have to eat. You have an obligation to You first and foremost. You can do for everyone in the world and sacrifice and get nothing in return. Don't worry what anyone else thinks because no man or woman can rightly judge you. You can have all the knowledge of God and no man can judge if it is of him. Weight the spirit by the spirit to know if they are of God.

God is Good all the time.

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Monday, July 24, 2017

Unconditional Love

I realized one day that I had been living a lie my entire life. I had been a heterosexual woman my entire life, only to discover one day I am a lesbian. People have this misconception that lesbians want just anybody. That's the Wrong idea. I am Very Particular!

In meeting this woman named Felicia. It was a professional encounter. I discovered that there was a strong connection and attraction to this person. Honestly, it blew my mind. How could I say this to myself? It's because I always have been a lesbian, since the age of 15. Fact!

However, since coming to San Francisco I will admit many questioned my sexuality, for my being so tenacious. I've always been a sensual lady, while being very versatile and strong. I think some thought I was Butch, but not the case.

I've met a few very handsome guys, some women would kill to have show an interest in them. I on the other hand thought they were handsome, but there was no spark. Merely eye candy.

It was in connecting with this woman, I realized that  even though I was in a 16 year relationship and marriage with a man, I had always fantasized about a woman. I have lived a lie for years. No man had ever been able to please me, because it was always a lie.

I told my mother. She said as long as I am happy, that's all that matters to her. If your child comes to you and tells you their gay, a lesbian or trans or bi, that still is your child. Judge not what you don't understand. The ultimate goal is to have your child happy with themselves!

That's unconditional love!

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Determination

The word determination means many things to me. It has healed me of pains from the past and helped me focus on the future. You must know what you want and where you are going. You cannot spend your time worrying about what others think, or if they will accept you.

Determination is the childhood I overcame. It is the times I was afraid and abused by my grandfather. The tears I shed because I was vulnerable. It is the taunting of other children because they were not raised right. The jealousy within the family unit, that continued allowing years of abuse.

We each experience life in different ways. It just so happens mine was different than yours. Reflecting back upon the past, is not a means to practice self pity or blame, but to smile at the resilience I possess. I smile at the things that were meant to break me. The people that came into my life and I chose to turn away from them.

We can continue down a path that is not healthy for us or we can follow our hearts. It is ultimately our choice. Determination has made me a better woman. I choose what I want in life. I cannot allow other people to choose for me. I see how I have in past accepted things because others said it is how things should be done. NO MORE!

I often wondered why I saw things so differently than others. I was not like everyone. I was always going against the status quo. I find I have had a history of keeping things real. Doing what was expected was not always in my best interest. I would often rock the boat.

I recall my determination to have nice things in life. I have had and lost , but I have continued to try. I know the life others say I should have, is not acceptable to me. I was born wealthy. I deserve all the best life has to offer. I don't believe poverty makes us better people. That is a form of limitation religion teaches.

I was once a religious zealot, but saw how those thoughts placed limits on my ambition. Determination to achieve greatness, cannot be accomplished with a limited mindset. If you keep an open mind about all things, you will see things from a completely different perspective. Life begins to take on a new form.

Remembering making bad decisions, I am determined to make better ones. Bad choices in relationships has showed me to be more attentive and not disregard the obvious signs seen in the very beginning. I think my desire for love in the past, made me more sustainable to overlook things.

I now see that if a person doesn't help to add to you and encourage you to follow your dreams, they are not for you. It is easy to be with someone that has little ambition and wants you to live a simple and mediocre life. However, if a person truly cares for you they will visualize your dreams with you. That is a real connection.

Determination is my getting over being raped. I remember feeling ashamed. Things take form within your mind, but you must replace these things with positive end encouraging thoughts; to motivate yourself. I am not saying this is easy. You must know you are worthy of better things and heal yourself daily.

Determination to see beauty, where there seems to be darkness and sorrow; is a sign you have been awakened and enlightened. You have the power to overcome anything. Think BIG! It is not for you to allow any circumstances to stop you from reaching for the stars. All things are possible.

Being strong during times of adversity is another form of determination. Will you allow someone else's
interpretation of you to hinder your progress? I recall many strange things happening. People have in past attempted to encourage my direction, I chose to go the opposite way. 

I have chosen to be positive and see my future in abundance and prosperity. Your goals change as you begin to see all the possibilities available in life. You must consciously decide to have a better life. It doesn't matter where you came from, only where you desire to go. Why should you care what others think of you?
It cannot and will not change who you are. That is what matters.

That Is DETERMINATION

Sunday, July 23, 2017

Life Lessons

In life we experience many things. From personal experience many things I have been exposed to were humiliating and very hurtful, however they also helped me to grow and be true to what I really desire in life. I woke up one day and my mind had opened up so significantly, it was scary. This was actually a good thing. Many years I thought I was stupid, but later discovered I was extremely intelligent. The culture, upbringing, education, experiences and mindset of those I was around or exposed to, shaped my behavior and mindset. Unknown to me once I became acquainted with myself, my perspective started to change.
While I love my family, I had to separate from them. I started to seek a greater purpose in life. Integrity and morals are determined by you the individual. I find many people live their entire life based on the standards others have set for them, later realizing their life has been an entire lie. What makes you happy? It comes from within. Once you get down to the truest form of you, that's when you'll truly be happy.

I hope you have a wonderful day and life. Live it your way!!!!!

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Saturday, July 22, 2017

While Walking in the Spirit

Go check out my book and get it on Amazon. It's about a woman troubled by her mind. She didn't understand the inherent gifts given to her by God. She suffered from mental illness and didn't realize with all the knowledge that she was completely sane. Technology has evolved from many years ago. If something were not possible, it would not exist. Search for the truth and look beyond what's obvious. If you stand for something you won't fall for anything.

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Sunday, February 5, 2017

True Love

It was the promise of you
That has restored my soul
Years of being tested
The truth starts to unfold
Remember all that transpired
I overcame my fears
The love I had
It made me shed some tears
My mind my thoughts
They were always with you
The woman I am
I had to thank God it's true
When everyone else saw
Someone in dismay
You saw deep within
Few words left to say
The woman I am
Now is set free
If not for you
I could not have found me

Monday, December 26, 2016

Moment In Time

For the very first time
You have made me feel
What I never had
Then I knew it was real
Without even a thought
I just always knew
From the feelings I had
My heart was with you
Different times in space
Moments frozen in time
The love that I have
Only yours intertwined
Never have a thought
Whether I'll be true
No man alive
Can take the place of you

Wednesday, September 7, 2016

What is Perfection?

Perfection is Loving
Despite what your mind says
It's not being angry
When things go through your head

It's doing that which
You don't want to do
When your heart says stop
But your mind tells you to

It's not being perfect
When every one else says
That thing ain't right
Do this instead

It's loving a man
One that will love you
It's giving of yourself
When they're not good for you

What is this thing we call Perfection?

Sunday, August 28, 2016

Positive Mind

Everything in life ain't what you think
You can serve God
While living your dreams
You don't lose all
And walk through
Life without nothing
It's not the truth

You can drive a Benz
Or life a life of wealth
Giving your all
Abundance and good health
Prosperity comes and will remain
You must obtain balance
Staying in your lane

Open up your mind
To new ideas
Stay Focused on getting
Everything while you're here
You have this life to live
Keeping in your mind
All things positive
It first starts inside

Thursday, August 11, 2016

My brother's Keeper

Doctor King
Yes he had the dream
Malcolm X
Assassinated on the scene

Fighting for the rights
Of me and you
Look at us now
Some did remain true

Keep it real
If you claim the call
All for one
One for all

In this day and time
Divided we stand
Help out your brother
Don't just hold out your hand

Power of positive thoughts

Unquantifiable light
Gamma Sun Rays
Positive Energy
Glorious days

For as you think
Things come to you
Inner peace
Meditation too

Channeling your spirit
The real you
Happy by nature
Oneself is true

As you look around
What do you see?
Creating reality
Big as the sea

Focus your thoughts
On that which you want
Paradigm shift
Ever flowing and brought

Wednesday, August 10, 2016

Best in Life

Your journey in life
There will be hella tests
The lessons you learn
You become your best

Many people you meet
Maybe there for you
You rise above
You can make it through

Always go inside
That's where you possess your dreams
When you look around
Are things as they seem

You live and learn
Always seek to grow
Before you know it
All good things start to show

Thursday, August 4, 2016

Keep It Real

I'm gonna live my life
I will live my dreams
Everything you desire
May be unseen

If all you want
Can come to you
Change your thoughts
Attractions it's true

Reality's revealed
You become your best
For what you feel
Ultimate tests

Journey is hell
It's live inside you
When all else failed
To thy own self be true

Dreams Come True!
All of Them.... Muah!

Monday, May 23, 2016

Love You

To love you I don't think you know
Your truest self will start to show
Live your life and overcome the tests
Health, wealth and fortune manifest
For what you think
Is not a dream
Things in life not as they seem
Your strength and courage to overcome
From which it derived
The rising sun
No one in life
Will choose your path
It's up to you
Do the math

Friday, May 20, 2016

A gifted soul

To be a young and gifted soul
Be proud of who you are
Your world starts to unfold
You walk through life
Hold your head high
For the things above
They reveal your why
Never be ashamed
Of what you've gone through
If not for those things
You would not be you