Showing posts with label communication. Show all posts
Showing posts with label communication. Show all posts

Thursday, November 7, 2019

Your Natural Abilities


I was asked one day if I thought I was qualified to take the test to become a Psychologist. The answer is yes. We each possess an inherent ability. In cultivating your natural born talents, you must also possess confidence. It would be impossible to help anyone if you do not have confidence in yourself.

In taking over 250 courses in psychology, I discovered by using Freud’s theory of the psychological phenomena, that an awakening can manifest your inherent ability. I discovered the Spiritual Awakening. A spiritual awakening, is the increasing of awareness and awakening of the mind by being aware of the world around you. One must also take this very seriously and have good intentions with others.

In addition to taking courses in Psychology, I also studied the bible. It helped me become clandestinely or consciously aware of myself and all others in the world. I began to understand the power of the mind in relation to thought and the world around me. I started to be in tune with the sound of my own voice, so I knew my own thoughts. This is how I can share and teach, by way of a multitude of experiences.
God creates us in his likeness and image. He hears all, sees all and knows all. Don't you think if you believe in God and are his child he would give you the ability to be as he is? Don't say you believe in him and think you are crazy. You lie if you say you believe the bible. God makes no mistakes. HIS LIKENESS! Senses are the Mind.

The mind causes many things in life to be so. It causes us to do excel, advance, and gives increase and magnifies us. The mind allows us to make proper judgments and perceive things with our senses. Discernment, intuition and the ability to perceive all things the mind can do.
The ability to observe or exercise the mind gives you a comprehension or ability to heed or understand things in life. It is the purpose for you to use your perception for intellectual activities which is a device of mind to use for thought.

You become clandestinely or consciously aware of yourself and all others in the world. You begin to understand the power of the mind in relation to thought and the world around you. You start to be in tune with the sound of your own voice, so you know your own thoughts.

The mind and conscience are interchangeable. The conscience gives you the ability to make correct moral computations or use your reasoning. You also can use your imagination as a form of thought. It is with the consciousness we can create a better world. You should always have positive thoughts and expect positive in your life. ALWAYS!

In using the mind, you must learn to be wise in word and act. You are to use the mind to teach wisdom and to make or show yourself to be wise. You are also to deal wisely with others; also, learning in from your mistakes. In life, there are a series of lessons we learn. We use those things to make more correct calculations in other circumstances. We are to exceed our own expectations in life and not someone else's. To thy own self be true. One must learn to rise above their past self to achieve remarkable things.

One must become delighted in things that bring pleasure. However, there is a fine line where pleasure is concerned. Your pleasure could be someone else's pain. Be sure to ask someone what this means to them to avoid any confusion. You should become more willing to seek pleasurable things as you learn and grow in life.




Thursday, August 24, 2017

Always being aware of your environment

You should always be aware of your environment. It can not only be harmful to you mentally but spiritually, if you are unaware. At any given time you must shield your thoughts from environmental factors. Put on your Armor. It is in having been in unpleasant places that gave me more insight on how the mind truly works. We are supposed to live in the present, however we also must be aware at all times. You could become acclimated to any given surrounding, if you don't remain focused. It takes training of mind.

I suppose one could say years of being in dysfunction gave me a significant amount of insight on this very subject. It is having removed myself from the familiar that I came to truly understand self. I guess when you change those that you associate yourself with, that are not moving in a positive direction, you come to realize how they can affect your mind. Monkey mind is the not knowing how the mind works. I love my family, but monkey mind is money mind. Not good for my mindset at all.

Your normal pattern of thinking tends to change as you grow an cultivate your abilities. You grow each day if you focus on something that increases your knowledge. You can take even the smallest thing and learn something. Even if its the way someone continues to display sexually aggressive behavior. Take for instance being in a women's shelter. Many of the women have been incarcerated and have been subjected to rape or trauma. They project this same behavior off on others. They believe in their own minds, that forcing things upon someone else, is the way to get ahead. This would in fact be wrong. 

I have also encountered those that study the wrong religious doctrine. They believe projecting negative energy off on others will get them what they want. Energy is like a reflective mirror. The energy you put out, will be returned unto you. You reap what you sow. Project positive energy and it shall be returned. Not saying my doctrine is the right one, but it is right for me. It also allows for you to cultivate a positive character. Your character is what dictates the future you will have. Good intentions are everything with regard to life. Always remember that!

Saturday, August 19, 2017

The Team

                              The Team

 There is no "I" in "team." There's also no "I" in "teamwork." Teamwork is not about a single person; it is about a group of people—at least two—who put their heads together and get the job done. A team can come up with the solution to a problem or separate, assign, and tackle all the elements of a project.

Together, a team shares its members' strengths and provides support for any members' potential weaknesses. The team is greater than the sum of its parts. All its members share responsibility and, ideally, share the rewards that result from their hard work.

The other element of teamwork is work. Being a member of a team is not always easy. It takes effort, responsibility, and strength to work alongside other people toward a common goal. Individual team members need to put their egos aside and contribute to the work of their team. Sometimes, that can mean doing work a person does not want to do or does not feel suited for—whether this means making copies, setting up phone calls, or delivering bad news—but it can have positive effects, too. When working with a team, people can accomplish more than they likely could on their own.

A Team is only as good as the sum of all its parts!

Loyalty is Everything!

Wednesday, January 6, 2016

Communicating Effectively In All Relationships

Many people define communication differently, so here is what it is. The act or process of communicating; fact of being communicated the imparting or interchange of thoughts, opinions, or information by speech, writing, or signs something imparted, interchanged, or transmitted a document or message imparting news, views, information, passage, or an opportunity or means of passage, between places.
Communications are means of sending messages, orders, etc., including telephone,telegraph, radio, and television. routes and transportation for moving troops and supplies from abase to an area of operations.
The biology in communication can change the behavior of others, unless one is in touch with themselves. The activity by one organism that changes or has the potential to change the behavior of other organisms.
The transfer of information from one cell or molecule to another, as by chemical or electrical signals.
Everything is energy. Be sure to give off Positive vibrations. Effective communication is a mutual exchange of listening and sharing of information to reach an understanding. Hearing what is said and processing the information in a positive manner.
Life presents many situations, that cause us to carefully evaluate the way we respond to things. We each have the ability to decide how we react or respond. History has taught me that one must carefully evaluate themselves. Be mindful to scope all the variables and not respond in a manner that will cause you to do anything that will jeopardize your future.
There are many instances of abuse and domestic violence; on a continual basis. You must learn to control your emotions, which contributes to your reaction or response to various situations. When you feel yourself becoming excited, immediately remove yourself from the situation.
I have observed abuse in many forms, from a young girl. There were situations in which women and men were both the abusers. The basis from either side, is control. It is lunacy to think you can control another human being. Although, I do understand how we come to have a desire to control others.
Many people choose to avoid seeking therapy for anger management issues; out of fear of shame, judgment or breach of confidence. It is the responsibility of the provider to maintain your confidence, as well as assist in correcting the issues of abuse.
Conventional therapy strategies can be somewhat outdated. In order for therapy to be effective, it can be useful to place the aggressor in a simulated situation of stimulus, to find effective techniques to put a stop to recurring abuse.
When under direct pressure to respond or react; do you ever take the time to Think? I realize when adrenaline is flowing and your buttons are being pushed; it is hard to control your emotions. However, rather than ruin the life you have worked hard for, you must learn to control your emotions.
Each day keep a journal. Focus your thoughts on positive things and be aware of how you feel. The things that bring pleasant emotions; are what you should focus on under pressure. If you practice daily on the happiest moment you can remember, you become more in control of your emotional well-being.
It takes mastery to be in a natural euphoric state, at all times. Remember, you control your emotions and not those around you. Optimism has a contagious effect on your environment; even if it doesn't, ignore what is not beneficial to your mind, body and spirit. Positive energy is good for you; practice makes perfect.
When you are surrounded by pessimistic individuals, that continually promote failure and negative talk; you learn to develop techniques that fight negative thought patterns. Having grown up in an abusive environment, I have seen and heard many things. The main thing I know is; you are in control of the way you feel, despite those around you.
Learning to speak clearly and ask leading questions to get the answers you seek.
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