Showing posts with label self preservation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self preservation. Show all posts

Monday, July 24, 2017

Unconditional Love

I realized one day that I had been living a lie my entire life. I had been a heterosexual woman my entire life, only to discover one day I am a lesbian. People have this misconception that lesbians want just anybody. That's the Wrong idea. I am Very Particular!

In meeting this woman named Felicia. It was a professional encounter. I discovered that there was a strong connection and attraction to this person. Honestly, it blew my mind. How could I say this to myself? It's because I always have been a lesbian, since the age of 15. Fact!

However, since coming to San Francisco I will admit many questioned my sexuality, for my being so tenacious. I've always been a sensual lady, while being very versatile and strong. I think some thought I was Butch, but not the case.

I've met a few very handsome guys, some women would kill to have show an interest in them. I on the other hand thought they were handsome, but there was no spark. Merely eye candy.

It was in connecting with this woman, I realized that  even though I was in a 16 year relationship and marriage with a man, I had always fantasized about a woman. I have lived a lie for years. No man had ever been able to please me, because it was always a lie.

I told my mother. She said as long as I am happy, that's all that matters to her. If your child comes to you and tells you their gay, a lesbian or trans or bi, that still is your child. Judge not what you don't understand. The ultimate goal is to have your child happy with themselves!

That's unconditional love!

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Sunday, February 5, 2017

True Love

It was the promise of you
That has restored my soul
Years of being tested
The truth starts to unfold
Remember all that transpired
I overcame my fears
The love I had
It made me shed some tears
My mind my thoughts
They were always with you
The woman I am
I had to thank God it's true
When everyone else saw
Someone in dismay
You saw deep within
Few words left to say
The woman I am
Now is set free
If not for you
I could not have found me

Monday, December 26, 2016

Moment In Time

For the very first time
You have made me feel
What I never had
Then I knew it was real
Without even a thought
I just always knew
From the feelings I had
My heart was with you
Different times in space
Moments frozen in time
The love that I have
Only yours intertwined
Never have a thought
Whether I'll be true
No man alive
Can take the place of you

Wednesday, September 7, 2016

What is Perfection?

Perfection is Loving
Despite what your mind says
It's not being angry
When things go through your head

It's doing that which
You don't want to do
When your heart says stop
But your mind tells you to

It's not being perfect
When every one else says
That thing ain't right
Do this instead

It's loving a man
One that will love you
It's giving of yourself
When they're not good for you

What is this thing we call Perfection?

Sunday, August 28, 2016

Positive Mind

Everything in life ain't what you think
You can serve God
While living your dreams
You don't lose all
And walk through
Life without nothing
It's not the truth

You can drive a Benz
Or life a life of wealth
Giving your all
Abundance and good health
Prosperity comes and will remain
You must obtain balance
Staying in your lane

Open up your mind
To new ideas
Stay Focused on getting
Everything while you're here
You have this life to live
Keeping in your mind
All things positive
It first starts inside

Monday, August 22, 2016

Expecting

Enchanting melodies
Running through my mind
Coupled with emotion
Feels great inside

Walking through each day
With intentions to do
Be and have
Whatever you want to

Expecting to receive
Whatever you ask
It takes training of mind
Very tedious task

Discipline yourself
It's your life to live
For you receive
That which you give

Wednesday, August 10, 2016

Best in Life

Your journey in life
There will be hella tests
The lessons you learn
You become your best

Many people you meet
Maybe there for you
You rise above
You can make it through

Always go inside
That's where you possess your dreams
When you look around
Are things as they seem

You live and learn
Always seek to grow
Before you know it
All good things start to show

Monday, May 23, 2016

Love You

To love you I don't think you know
Your truest self will start to show
Live your life and overcome the tests
Health, wealth and fortune manifest
For what you think
Is not a dream
Things in life not as they seem
Your strength and courage to overcome
From which it derived
The rising sun
No one in life
Will choose your path
It's up to you
Do the math

Thursday, May 12, 2016

Putting Your Heart First

During the month of February, our minds may be on Valentine’s Day romance, but we shouldn’t forget to give a little love to our hearts. Our hearts work tirelessly, without rest or pause, over the course of our lifetimes providing us with an average of 70 to 75 beats per minute, or more than 100 thousand beats a day.
When given regular exercise and a healthy diet rich in nutrients, a typical human heart will beat around 2.5 billion times by age 70. Unfortunately, statistics point out that too many hearts fall short of that milestone. As it’s American Heart Month, it’s time to spread awareness that one in every three deaths is from heart disease or stroke.
What’s more worrisome is that risk of heart disease may be underestimated, according to a new 50-year-long analysis performed by University of Texas Southwest Medical Center researchers. The researchers categorized for “high-risk” markers of high blood pressure, high cholesterol, overweight or obesity, history of smoking, and diabetes and found that the risk of death from heart disease for most adults remains high over a lifetime with:
  • White men having 36 percent risk
  • Black men having 33 percent risk
  • Women (both black and white) having 27 percent risk 
Previously, doctors have only flagged the presence of all or most of the risk factors as a cause for concern. The researchers, who published their findings in the New England Journal of Medicine,demonstrated that this approach is not adequate to predict development, at least in the long-term. They showed that people with just two or more risk factors increased their lifetime risk of developing heart disease by about 34 percent in men and 17 percent in women, compared to people with less than two risk factors.
Their findings may help explain why, according to the latest report (2) released by the American Heart Association (AHA) in conjunction with the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), approximately one American dies of cardiovascular disease every 39 seconds, with nearly 33 percent of these deaths occurring before the age of 75, well before the predicted average lifespan for Americans of 78 years.
Once again, these statistics are presented alongside the baffling reality that heart disease is completely preventable. Every risk factor can be mitigated or eliminated by simply choosing a heart-healthy lifestyle.
Heart-Healthy Lifestyle
How to begin the journey of taking the strain off your heart? Regular exercise and quitting smoking are critical, and so is eating a diet rich in antioxidants and fiber, as well as maintaining a healthy weight. Excess weight, the kind carried around the middle in particular, can put major strain on the heart and contributes to risk factors such as high blood pressure, insulin resistance, high cholesterol, and high triglycerides.
For help doing away with risk factors, there’s Isagenix—the Cleansing and Fat Burning System with Ageless Essentials Daily Pack is nutritionally sound and is clinically shown to help people meet their weight-management goals. The system’s Shake Days help control calories and its Cleanse Days help trigger healthy fat burning and promote natural detoxification while resting the liver. In addition, the system maximizes nutrition, providing all-important antioxidant nutrients such as vitamin E and coQ10, while also including fish omega-3 fatty acids to keep the heart going strong into old age (3-4).*
Regular add-ons such as SlimCakes or FiberSnacks! are also excellent for supplementing a fruit-and-vegetable-rich diet for heart-healthy fiber, which is largely absent in the American diet.** IsaDelight Plus chocolates can also be included as delicious, guilt-free snacks that can curb cravings assisting with weight loss (5).
Regardless of how we take care of ourselves, every heartbeat should serve as a small reminder this month of the statistics given above, the role of the heart, and to make choices showing we appreciate what it does for us daily as long as we live.
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References
1.    Berry JD, Dyer A, Cai X et al. Lifetime risks of cardiovascular disease. N Engl J Med 2012;366:321-9.
2.    Roger VL, Go AS, Lloyd-Jones DM et al. Executive Summary: Heart Disease and Stroke Statistics–2012 Update: A Report From the American Heart Association. Circulation 2012;125:188-97.
3.    Shargorodsky M, Debby O, Matas Z, Zimlichman R. Effect of long-term treatment with antioxidants (vitamin C, vitamin E, coenzyme Q10 and selenium) on arterial compliance, humoral factors and inflammatory markers in patients with multiple cardiovascular risk factors. Nutr Metab (Lond) 2010;7:55.
4.    Strom M, Halldorsson TI, Mortensen EL, Torp-Pedersen C, Olsen SF. Fish, n-3 fatty acids, and cardiovascular diseases in women of reproductive age: a prospective study in a large national cohort.Hypertension 2012;59:36-43.
5.    Buitrago-Lopez A, Sanderson J, Johnson L et al. Chocolate consumption and cardiometabolic disorders: systematic review and meta-analysis. BMJ 2011;343:d4488.
*Supportive but not conclusive research shows that consumption of EPA and DHA omega-3 fatty acids may reduce the risk of coronary heart disease. One serving of Ageless Essentials Daily Pack provides 1,200 milligrams of EPA and DHA omega-3 fatty acids. [See nutrition information for total fat, saturated fat, and cholesterol content.]
**Diets low in saturated fat and cholesterol may reduce the risk of heart disease.

Thursday, March 31, 2016

Truest Nature

Some things you never speak of
Some things you never tell
Some things you know within your heart
You keep those things as well

They say your truest Nature
Causes you to change
For what lives deep within
Spirit is her name

Joyful things overflow
You feel these things in you
The person that you really are
That light shines good as new

They say the purpose of your life
Is for you to choose
Possibilities are endless
What's there for you to lose?